Losing my daughter

This is my first post. My daughter took her own life on 26/4/26 I have no idea why. Since her death I have found out so many things that I don’t even recognise who people are talking about. I feel completely betrayed. I’m angry. I trusted her over and over again. I took her side over my other children because she wouldn’t lie to her mom. I supported her through everything. How stupid do I feel. She lied over and over. When I look back on my messages with her most are her asking for money and me sending it because the thought of her going without was too much to carry. I’m angry I’m hurt I’m disappointed and I’m trapped.

1 Like

Hi Janie, I am so sorry to hear your suffering. If you trusted her through the years it’s because you loved her and what ever lead her to her final moments must have been terrible for her. Whether she did things she shouldn’t have done or not it lead her to unhappiness. It might be a good idea to talk about these feelings with a therapist as a normal bereavement is difficult without the added difficulty of these circumstances.
Wishing you all the strength you will need
Tom

:people_hugging::hugs:

Thank you Tom. I appreciate you replying. I must admit I do not like all these feelings

1 Like