Losing my husband 2015

I have to say since my husband died because of clinical negligence and some men think I’m their property but well before my husband passed away , basically well 20 years long some pervert thinks I have to love the people idea to start seeing sense that my husband who I met 1994 overseas in my homeland Germany, that person thinks that my husband was an ugly man and still is putting my marriage down and is disgusting behaving and sitting with a phone and pestering me to have a conversation and relationship with him against my will.Yes it is not a lie of mine that mob, is literally phoning me up and puts his dirty mind in mine and makes loud noises when he is phoning my house number.He wants to play doctor and patient with me against my will