Hi well my day started great and now I feel.like crap.again one txt from.family and everything changes well I amgoing to.have a sandwich for my tea all I feel like eating then I am.gping to my bed to end this day I am so.fed up.with this who would have ever thought that losing my husband would.mean all this for me is this is how it is meant to be my life.also.ended because that what it feels.like no husband.no friends no nothing I never thought I would get to this age and I would feel.like.this all.our plans gone I cannot even go out as everywhere I went I went with paul would love to go.somewhere anywhere but on my own its.not that easy I don’t think anybody gets this and how.i feel even my stepmum does.not get it I feel.so.alone now.there is.nobody that.hets how you feel.i don’t want pity or people feeling.sorry for.me I just need someone to.understand my feelings and talk to.me not.juzt shut me out is that so.hard I am asking to much maybe I am maybe my expectations are to high
Sarah
stay strong sarah, i get where youre coming from. i hated going to places where we always went at first. these things take time. after a while i found it a comfort to go places we enjoyed together. i could almost see Mo there. It was like she was sending me a message. losing our partners leaves us with everyday things that we now cant cope with, to this day i cant watch soaps on tv as the theme tunes bring memories of Mo in the hospice at the end of her struggle watching tv for a little ‘normality’.
i hope in time you will be able to go to the places you and Paul went and find the comfort of your memories of you both enjoying yourselves.
sending you strength and best wishes
Neil
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I get not wanting to go places you’ve been with your husband, the memories are very upsetting. I’ve avoided a local shopping centre as the last time I was there we went to Pizza Hut and had a nice day. There’s other restaurants I avoid as well as we used to go out for lunch at least once a week. I’m hoping I ll get over this as time goes by.