Hi
I notice that people on here say goodnight to each other i am just wondering do you all get sleep as i only get a couple of hours its like my brain has to work and i cannot get off to sleep i have thought of going to a gym to try and get fitter but i need on that will not be to hard on my back while i wait to go and see multiskelitol team i nead to do something i cannot go on in this back pain much longer i used to blame paul with all the lofting and handling before we had hoists and bless him it was not his fault i am sorry paul don’t hate me for getting this wrong please this is my way of dealing with my grief is to talk to him as if he was still here it’s the only thing that gets me through each day silly i know
Sweetlady
Hello again, its not silly at all, I talk to my husband all the time, I ask him what he wants to eat, or does he want coffee, I mean I know hes not gonna answer, but I guess I just do it for me. I still send text messages to him and pictures of the grandkids, its as if I don’t want him to miss out on anything, I know its silly, maybe I’ll stop someday, who knows, I keep saying im gonna disconnect his phone but I can’t do it quite yet. Take care good night.
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I stare at the tv until 2 or 3 in the morning, must drift off for a couple of hours but always awake before 6. I walk a lot but makes no difference, mind going nuts thinking about Norm all the time, he always used to joke hed come back and haunt me, maybe he is! I also talk to Norman constantly, I take his little photo frame out in my pocket and talk and kiss it all the time Im out. At home lots of different pics around to chat to him, I also light incense by his pic as he always had incense on the go. So you and Paul carry on your chats. xx
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Good night Helen I hope you are ok. Wishing you a lovely evening and a good night’s sleep
All the best
Tom
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