Losing my husband

Losing a partner
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Hi

When i came on here i thought i thought i was the only one in this grief it was mine and mine alone until i vame on here and saw how many people where in this i was not on my own and the men too i thought it would be all ladies i never gave men a thought so sorry guys i did not know you too are suffering :broken_heart: i just thought it was a lady thing and for that i apologise to all the men on here that have lost there loved ones i think i was in my own grief for to long on my own with no one to talk to aboit this but on here you can put all your feelings and i find it a great comfort and even from you men who seem to understand what it is likei don’t ever thunk my life will be any different than it is now and this loniness is excruciating at times especially night time when i am in bed at 2am seems to be my time that i need someone too talk to but most people sleep better that me and that is just how it is and that is whsn my loniness hits me the hardest .
Sweetlady

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The nights are hard and mornings hardest. I’m lucky that my best friends have a big time difference, so it’s late evening here and they are just going to work in the morning, so I can talk to them on the phone. What worries me, it’s a lack of minutes to my country, so I can’t talk as much as I want, and yet long enough to talk about my misery… They’re more helpful at a distance than people around me…
Janka

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