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Thank you for your kind words ,This site is very helpful
When i go to my husband grave, i play the songs he liked ,and talk to him which gives me some comfort ,
The pain of losing a husband is unbearable
Take care
I so wish they could find a cure i also lost my mum to cancer in oct 2019 she passed away 4 months after being told then to be told my Husband had cancer and to loss him to it as well 0ct last year just do not think i can cope anymore
I do feel for you. It is too much to cope with at times.
I lost my Dad to cancer in Feb 21 then my lovely husband in Oct 22 and also a cousin in Sept. It becomes overwhelming .
So true it does became overwhelming do not how much i can cope with
So much suffering. I lost my husband almost 7 mos ago. He had cancer, but in the end it was his Alzheimerās that my beloved died from. The last 1 1/2 yrs were devastating. I donāt feel I have made much progress in my grief journey.
Like others I am grateful for others on this site. People that understand is important.
Peace and love to all, Karen
Alzheimerās is a cruel disease. I lost my mum to it 16 years ago. Itās like losing and grieving for them twice over and people saying āat least sheās not suffering anymoreā is trite and no help whatsoever. Iām so sorry youāre in so much pain, @Karetired. Weāre all just fighting to keep going. Dragging ourselves through the days as best we can. Sometimes, the fight just leaves me. Iām exhausted from it and donāt want to do it anymore. I feel like itās a fight I canāt win. Butā¦ā¦. Weāll get up in the morning and face another day TOGETHER. Weāre all in this together to help and support each other. Love and strength to everyone. Jean xx.
Thank you @Jean8 You are so right the triteness of saying he is not suffering anymore or he is at peace now. Canāt really argue that point, but saying that does nothing to help me. I am exhausted from all this, and no reprieve in site.
Appreciate the support.
Karen
So true about them not suffering no more but its the pain we are left with i miss my husband so much