Losing my husband

Losing a partner
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Alir
Thank you for your kind words ,This site is very helpful
When i go to my husband grave, i play the songs he liked ,and talk to him which gives me some comfort ,
The pain of losing a husband is unbearable
Take care

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I so wish they could find a cure i also lost my mum to cancer in oct 2019 she passed away 4 months after being told then to be told my Husband had cancer and to loss him to it as well 0ct last year just do not think i can cope anymore

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I do feel for you. It is too much to cope with at times.
I lost my Dad to cancer in Feb 21 then my lovely husband in Oct 22 and also a cousin in Sept. It becomes overwhelming .

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So true it does became overwhelming do not how much i can cope with

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So much suffering. I lost my husband almost 7 mos ago. He had cancer, but in the end it was his Alzheimerā€™s that my beloved died from. The last 1 1/2 yrs were devastating. I donā€™t feel I have made much progress in my grief journey.
Like others I am grateful for others on this site. People that understand is important.
Peace and love to all, Karen

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Alzheimerā€™s is a cruel disease. I lost my mum to it 16 years ago. Itā€™s like losing and grieving for them twice over and people saying ā€˜at least sheā€™s not suffering anymoreā€™ is trite and no help whatsoever. Iā€™m so sorry youā€™re in so much pain, @Karetired. Weā€™re all just fighting to keep going. Dragging ourselves through the days as best we can. Sometimes, the fight just leaves me. Iā€™m exhausted from it and donā€™t want to do it anymore. I feel like itā€™s a fight I canā€™t win. Butā€¦ā€¦. Weā€™ll get up in the morning and face another day TOGETHER. Weā€™re all in this together to help and support each other. Love and strength to everyone. Jean xx.

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Thank you @Jean8 You are so right the triteness of saying he is not suffering anymore or he is at peace now. Canā€™t really argue that point, but saying that does nothing to help me. I am exhausted from all this, and no reprieve in site.
Appreciate the support.
:heart:Karen

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So true about them not suffering no more but its the pain we are left with i miss my husband so much

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