Losing my husband

I Lost my husband 8 months ago to cancer. I’m finding it hard to cope. I cry most days.We didn’t have any children,the house is so quite,I miss him so much. Also how do you sign out of this community when I have finished?

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hi Seedo

I am so sorry for your loss. time is never a healer. Memories never die and try and think about what he would want you to do. Have you had some counselling recently?

Hello Mittens, no I have not had any counselling,my doctor gave me a list of names,but I have not been well,so I did not get round to doing it.Also sorry to ask but how do you log out of this community I can’t find any log out.

I have literelly just joined. I guess if you click on the magnifying glass and chose a log out option, that might work?
telephone counselling is also an option these days if you don’t want to meet face to face.

good luck and take care.

click on your profile then there is an option to log out.

Thank you.

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Just take good care its a long long journey im 8 months in to loosing my husband off 40 years its totally heart breaking

We were married 37 years.I agree it is totally heartbreaking.All the happiness and laughter we shared has just disappeared, It’s just silence now.Take care.

So sorry. Yes, the silence is deafening, isn’t it? When it gets too much I put the tv or radio on, just for the background noise. And talk to him a lot…I know, crazy…I tell him how I’m feeling, and just getting it all out into the air seems to help a bit.

I do the same,I watch GB News online,to hear conversations.I talk to my late husband as well. I think it helps a bit to try and cope with it all.

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