Hello I am 27 years old I have 2 beautiful boys I recently lost my mam over Christmas and finding it very hard to mange life I feel like I can’t talk about it with close family as it’s still very raw , my husband has been amazing but I just don’t feel like he completely understands the pain and grief am in
I miss my mam so much and really struggling in my self at the minute
My little boy is coming up 2 very soon and making me miss my mam even more as she absolutely loved her grandchild and knowing she’s not there to see this makes me so upset and I just don’t know what to do
I lost my mum quite suddenly on the 7th Jan and I feel I will never get over it. I.m blocking it out and trying to convince myself it’s not happening, just to get through each day. I’ve been off work for a month and can’t contemplate going back anytime soon. I can sympathise with you because it’s just so awful😭
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Lost mine 5 days ago and everyone is saying she is now an Angel watching over us, but I really need her here - physically. She was 55 and I’m 30, unmarried, no kids. I really need her right now…. I wonder how I’d navigate my life from now as she’s the one I always run to…. I’m so angry, lost, sad, and confused… I miss her so much.
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Some people say the pain never goes away, but it becomes easier to bear. Sometimes I feel like I don’t wanna let go of the pain…
It’s 5days today and I know the reality will set in when we bury her. I miss her beautiful face… I miss her voice. I miss waking up in the middle of the night to see her praying and lighting candles.
People say God knows best… how is taking my mum the best. She was just 55! I’m 30 - at the stage where I even need her more…
I’m so sorry. It’s the worst pain. It’s nearly 4 weeks for me and the funeral was only last Thurs. I’m really struggling because like you my mum was everything to me. I do have a husband and grown up children plus 2 grand children but I still need my mum. I get through each day pretending it’s not real and wake up with a sense of dread every morning. I think grief counselling might help. I.m speaking to my Dr today. Maybe that’s something you should think about too. They say time is a healer and it will get a little easier for us as time goes on.
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Sorry for your lost
And thank you I may give it a go hope it works for you
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