Its coming up to 10 months since i lost my mum and its only know that i feel like the grief has hit me hard i just feel like am exsiting and not living my mum wasnt just my mum she was my dad my bestfriend 
we were always together am now am just lost.
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Hi i am so sorry for your loss, and i lost my mum 4 years ago and she was my best friend as well as my mum, i still get good days and bad days but i try and remember good times we had together, xx
Hi, sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I lost my own mother five years ago and it still really hurts. There are times when like you the grief hits hard but as time goes by you learn to deal with it better - the deep grief seems to come in peaks and troughs - this shows how much we loved our mothers - how deep the bond goes. Through time it becomes slightly easier. You have to take it just one day at a time. Reading different people’s experiences of grief on here really helps. Be kind to yourself and take care - our mothers would only want the best for us.