i am so lost with out my mum, it was a year two days ago.
I lost my Mum coming up to 5 months now and don’t think I’ll ever feel normal myself and I know that I will always feel lost.
Although my Dad is still with me I feel like a lost child so I get where you’re coming from.
Sorry I don’t have any magic words to take away your pain but it helps sometimes to know that you’re not alone x
Thank you. I am sorry for your loss x
Hi i lost my mam 6 years ago and my dad 6 months ago it is so hard. I admit I am struggling so badly and I hope that the pain will gradually ease. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care xxx
thank you i appreciate that.
i hope you are okay i am here always, private message me or message me here, i am always here even if you want to rant i am here xx
i am sorry for your loss xx
Thank you for your reply. I am having a particularly bad day today, Monday’s always are but just to know that other people care is a help. Mam and dad had a talking clock which is in my wardrobe now and when I opened the door last Monday the clock just spoke the time without anything being near it so I know that they are with me. Take care xxx
I too lost my mum in April, I went away recently and it was just what I needed and was feeling better but then just cried for the last 2 days and have no motivation. Try to plan little things to look forward to but most of all talk to a friend or family member. I worry about burdening my friends and crying all the time but feel so much better after a chat. It comes in waves but then knocks my confidence as I thought I was starting to able to talk about mum without crying. Here for you.
My friends seem to be none existent but i have my partner who’s been my rock, I feel bad going on about it all the time though as he lost his grandad like 2 months before my mum went, this year has been the worst year of our lives.
My partner has also been brilliant but don’t want to be always crying. Hate burdening anyone but somehow talking does help x
You certainly find out who your real friends are. Always here for a natter if you’re having a bad day x
Thank you that’s very kind of you, the same goes for you, I’m only a message away x
As for my friends they don’t seem to check in on me at all these days and I went out with them last weekend and I may as well not been there.
They literally had their backs to me during conversation and because I’m grieving it got to me more and I just ended up leaving them and going home x
I’ve found that only my friends who have lost someone close understand and are sympathetic. It’s a selfish world we live in, everyone’s only interested in themselves Take care xx
Thank you i appreciate that x
Thank you x