Losing my Nan 💔

Losing a grandparent
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I lost my Nan July 2024, I was with her until her last breath and then until she was taken into the care of the funeral home.

I have been left devastated by this loss and I feel such pain currently it is debilitating.

I have days when I can make the odd fond memory comment but most of the time its just pain.

I have had bereavement counselling and I felt it was handy but im still in so much pain.

This isnt the way it went with my Grandad, I adored him and I am confused why I managed so well with that, when this has crushed me.

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Hello @jenny89,

Thank you for so bravely sharing this with the community. I’m so sorry to hear about your grandparents.

I hope you find the community to be a support to you. Many of our members have experienced the death of their grandparent and will understand some of what you’re going through. I’m not sure if you’ve seen our Losing a grandparent category. But there you will find lots of conversations from other members who are coping with their grief. You may find some comfort in knowing you are not alone.

You may also find these Sue Ryder resources helpful right now.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support too. Keep reaching out and take care :blue_heart:

Alex

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I know how you feel and I’m sorry it’s so painful. I went through the same, I lost my grandmother first and last year my grandfather and I’ve not been the same since. Something in me feels different and heavy and terrifying. I have so much guilt and worry and anxiety and am yet to move forward. I managed to cope with my Nan passing ten years ago so I know grief can be managed but this seems way over my head. There must be a way through, we just need to navigate and not expect too much too soon x I hope it gets easier soon and I’m here if you want to just talk x

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Hi Jenny

I lost my nanna 6 months after my grandad, so I share the same feelings as you. Please feel free to reach out if needed

Hannah x

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Hope you are managing ok, it’s a difficult road to navigate but I joined this community so I could reach out and not feel so alone and worried about how I feel. Whilst I wouldn’t wish it on anybody it helps knowing we are not the only ones and can discuss with people who relate. Here if you want to chat x

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