So my partner was taken almost a week ago, been battling an illness for years and fighting the system 1 hospital saying no recovery and 1 saying there is a slim chance. I was with her when she went as managed to get her home. Holding her hand as she wanted.
Now been told that it looks like Hospital messed up and going to coroners court and stuff.
Finding it hard to accept that we are meant to trust them and potentially they shortened her life.
Each day since then has been so hard nd now am at the point of not wanting to go on without her no more
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This is a club that no one wishes to join but actually is the one that gives so much support and understanding. I’m sorry you are here and your story sounds really hard. To be dealing with that and the loss of someone you loved so much, it’s hard. To think you could have had more time together if things were done differently must be so hard to cope with.
The raw and consuming early days are hard, take it hour by hour. I know I’ve read similar stories from others on here and hopefully they will get to see your post and offer some support.
My partner was taken from me sudden and unexpected nearly 8 months ago, it’s a hard journey we just have to walk through.
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Take care, stay strong, we are all in similar horribke situations.
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I am so sorry, please stay strong and try to reach out to people
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Life now without them is so really, really hard. I’m about 7 months down the leader but it still really hurts. I really hate the NHS because of what they didn’t do to help him. Does it get better? perhaps one day but at the moment you just need to take one day at a time
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Sadly, the NHS didn’t help my wife, in the hospital not enough staff to do the care, I went every day to feed her because my wife was slow in eating up to forty minutes to eat a meal they sent her home to me to care for her till she passed away a week later, 14 months on, I have had some good days and a few low ones so hang in there
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Turns out from research as she did not jave fluids for 7vdays they needed to treat it as refeeding syndrome so should have kept her in forn10cdays kicked herbout after 2.
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Yeh had a very similar experience myself ;( specialist giving us hope and then oncogist saying nothing they could do !!! What is going on ? It scares me state of NHS … i eish ypu sll success with coroners report and let us know how it goes xxx
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The hospitals are just messing up all the time !!! Its awful stories you hear ! Take care wont you ??? Xx
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I am so sorry for your loss.its such early days for you & you are in a very dark place.and there is no easy way out.we just have to walk through the Grief.by not thinking to far ahead by taking it a Day at a time & been kind to yourself & doing whats right for you. & keep sharing your though & feeling on here.as we all understand & have been through it.sending you love & light
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