Losing my partner

My partner died on 13th September. She had been unwell for a few months. She was admitted to hospital on the Monday, was told she had cancer on Tuesday, was told she was palliative on Wednesday and died on Friday. She was only 43. We had been together for 9 years. I’m heartbroken and struggling to comprehend it. Our whole future has been snatched away and all hopes and dreams are gone. I feel completely lost. I’ve been through grief many times before, but not like this. I feel as if my heart has been ripped out of my chest. I know this is normal but it’s horrendous.

I know , I understand…
I have lost my husband on the 16th September also after a few months of fighting for his life after stroke.
Hugs to you, dear friend. Let us cry together.:heart:

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So sorry for your loss. Its the loneliness for me just now and the waves of realisation. It’s exhausting. I just miss her so much.

So sorry for your loss, I to lost my husband on the 1st September, he had only been in hospital for 2 weeks with pneumonia which I never dreamed would cause his death, he was only 55. Just trying to get through the days as they come, grief is overwhelming but try to do one snall thing each day.