I lost my partner in November we have children. It was terminal cancer it felt so very sudden in the end . How do people cope with there grief? I feel guilty and go over every little detail, if anything could have changed the outcome. New year has been so very hard.
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You never expect someone to leave in this way. Doesn’t matter if they were I’ll for a long time. You never believe there will be a time you are not together. I feel your pain.
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I lost my husband too in November to cancer, im struggling ever since, i miss him so much
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It is just awful isn’t it . I don’t feel like anyone truly understands, unless they have been through it .
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My hubby passed 3 days ago, he had terminal cancer but was told just weeks ago he was in remission. He was taken to hospital with a twisted bowel and sever head pressure and pain, four days later he had a seizure and passed away, it aaa sudden and unexpected and I can’t believe it’s happened, I feel like it’s my fault like I should have been able to see there was an issue and help him some other way, I can’t see how I’m meant to continue without him. I’m in tournament, I’ve been praying over and over that god will allow my hubby to come for me
I know how you feel, it will be 6 weeks tomorrow, the pain is unbearable still and every day i just want my lovely husband to come back to me
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Hello Broken doll my partner had a massive seizure the morning of the 30.12.2024. I feel guilty because when the fit hit it was like his night terrors but I didn’t shake him awake like usually did. Then he had a couple of very pod breaths. I waited for his breathing to get back to normal. He didn’t breath again. It couldn’t have been more than 10 to 20 seconds. I was shaking him shouting at him he wouldn’t wake up. Then I pulled his eyelid back praying I wouldn’t see see what I did. Fixed and dilated. My loves face his but not his. Then the phone call me working on him. I can’t say I feel your pain as it’s my pain I am feeling but I empathise. Greatly. I am alone for ever and want him back.I want to be with him. I know your pain. And it’s the worst thing in the world.
My husband also has a seizure the morning of the 30/12/24 which took him. He passed in hospital as they wasn’t treating him. My husband had cancer but was told just weeks previous he was in remission and they kept saying the pain in his head was the cancer from his oesophagus but then did a lumbar puncture which showed he had meningitis and a Brian bleed but they refused to treat it. My hunny was in agony for 5 days solid and eventually had a seizure that morning early hours with me there, they are trying to put on his certificate it was cancer related but I’ve refused and made them go to coroners and I owe it to my husband. He thought that cancer and won. No way will they get away with what they took from him. His life at only 46. They made his last days horrendous
Oh my. I am so very very sorry. Anger and sadness. I am glad you are going to the coroner. Don’t let them get away with it.