I am struggling with the vacuum left by my sisters passing . She had a brain tumour so the journey was two years of helping her and her husband to care for her . She was my soul mate i lived fir the times we spent together. I am finding i cannot deal with stress and have kind of distanced myself from most people . I collaped after her funeral and have been monitored for slightly raised blood pressure. I feel i have broken heart syndrome.
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Hello @Sad12,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your sister that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
You have been through an awful time. I’m not surprised that you are struggling . Grief is quite overwhelming sometimes. I too ended up in A&e with chest pains nearing the first year anniversary of my sisters passing.
The pain will lessen over time but I miss and think of my sister everyday. But we have the happy memories to hold on to. Sounds as though you were really there for her when she needed you.