Same, ive other children and grandchildren to think of, be strong 
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I just don’t know how to live anymore. There’s not enough help out there , doctors aren’t good, it’s hard to get an appointment, don’t know where to go or do. The world moves on but I’m still in stone frozen in that agonising moment
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Sounds stupid but im going to see if i can book a rage room somewhere
Im so angry all the time. Angry at my husband my friends the lady behind me in the supermarket its so bad i need to get rid of this rage or im going to combust.
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Hi,so sorry for your loss,my brother and wife lost their eldest son barry 46 very tragically while he was on holiday in brazil,total shock,we as a family will never get over it,he leaves a 9 yr old daughter shes heartbroken 
as we all are ,i think about him almost every day .
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I’m feeling terrible today, constantly on the verge of tears . I just want my son so badly I’m missing him so much and I’ve never felt so alone.
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Thank you so much, it really means alot.
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So sorry for your loss, I feel like you do most days. It is so hard to cope at times, I try to describe the lonliness I feel at times but nobody understands. I feel like I am in a bubble.
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Hi, so sorry for your loss. I thought this would never happen to me, and the shock of it all is overwheming. I know what the devastation feels like, even now it is so hard to believe. Trouble is we can’t change anything, it seems so unfair.
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I can relate to this, the anger is like an eruption and is always simmering just below the surface. Impossible to hold back most of the time.
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So sorry for your loss, these could be my words, I feel exactly the same. It is all so sad, and you are right, there is not much help out there.
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I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. This is why it is so hard to believe that something like this can happen. My son was a very fit person, but he suffered a cardiac arrest and although they put him on life support he didn’t survive. He passed with a brain injury caused by lack of oxygen. Trouble is they cannot tell us what caused the cardiac arrest, we had to go for genetic testing and heart tests and they could find nothing. They have said he comes under SADs, it is so hard to accept. Sending my condolences to you.
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Hi so sorry for your loss it’s an unbearable place to be in . I lost my son in December 2022 and it’s still really hard . I totally agree with the things you said , people don’t understand the loss and I also get angry that family don’t seem to share my pain . We don’t talk about our son unless I bring it up I miss him so much . But one thing I do know we get through this even in the pain .xx
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I am so sorry for the loss of your dear son. I lost my son on September 11, 2025. My son was 48 and died oh an heart attack. At first I was in shock for 10 weeks. Then I realized I would never see him again and I was a mess. It has been 4 months since he has been gone. I also feel so alone. I now just want to sleep all day. I am so overwhelmed just writing this. I am sending all my love and hugs to the other mom’s and dad’s that are feeling so alone and grief stricken.
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