Hi all I’m so so sad right now and also angry my step daughter who is so young went to A & E , 4 weeks ago approx with chest pain etc and was told it was indigestion. Sent home and suddenly 2 days later collapsed heart attack and now she’s gone not here. I want to go over to the hospital and ask what the hell has gone on, as she should still be here and I can’t accept it. Even though seen her in chapel of rest. I don’t want to upset her mum and her dad because of how I feel about the hospital.!! How did this miss this! I’m so angry. Totally devastated and just keep seeing her now in the chapel of rest and asking why didn’t we save you. They could have saved her she has small children also.
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your stepdaughter. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
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