I lost my partner 3 months ago. It was horrible at the end he was in so much pain and it broke my heart. I miss him every day and don’t know how to cope. I have no family as they are in Scotland. I have 1 friend but she’s always working.
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I feel for you. I lost my wife 6 weeks ago. The pain is at times unbearable. I know I should be trying to say something positive, but the feeling of loss and loneliness is so overwhelming it just consumes me.
Please keep in touch we may be able to help each other.
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@Shazza69 Hi there, sorry it’s come to you finding yourself on this site, and so sorry to hear of the passing of your partner. My wife passed away 9 months ago and I can relate fully to all yo are saying about what you witnessed. It really is the most desperate of times to have to experience. There’s not really much I can say that will ease the pain, the confusion or the disbelief. I know it doesn’t feel like it but things will gradually ease, bit by bit you will come back to yourself. It seems to be a universal that things will ebb and flow, stability will follow despair. I found that I had to be patient, be kind to myself, give myself recognition for taking small steps. One of the best things I did was coming on here, every person here is or has been in your position, we can understand and where we can we will help. IT’s helped me to get to here, where I’m chatting with you, at the start that was unimaginable. Small steps.
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I am so sorry that you going through this time on your own. I am on my own as well with no support and I am on the waiting list for Mind Thurrock. Did you try to get help from your GP? I have my husband’s ashes as well at home and talk and hug his urn every time when I pass our bedroom. Sending love and hugs.
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At this stage it is too early to help. You are still suffering. Just stay on the site. You will find support and useful advice. I have. Xx. Hugs. Sandra
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So sorry for your loss.my heart truly goes out to you.at this point you will be in so much pain.shock & disbelief.but you will get through it.just go with what you are feeling.& be kind to yourself & take it a day at a time.& keep sharing how you are feeling on this site.as people here do care & know exacted what you are going through.as we all might be at different stage of grief.but we all have been where you are now.sending you love & hugs.
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Thank you for your lovely message. Very kind of you.
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