I lost the love of my life 9 months ago…on Saturday it was his birthday…he would have been 47 years old… I don’t know how i am supposed to go on…we were together for 11 years and we went through so much…when he got diagnosed in 2019, 2 weeks before our wedding in Greece, it was devastating…we cancelled everything but we had each other…we were about to start IVF but the week before we had our final tests he passed away…and I am just left here…alone…I just miss him so much…
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So sorry to hear of your loss.
I am 4 months into this journey my husband died suddenly after 35 years of marriage.
I know some days are very hard to get through and special days anniversaries birthdays Christmas are always hard to get through.
We can only just live a day at a time.
Taking time to grieve and cry when we need to.
Remember to look after yourself x
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So sorry to hear about your loss and the tragic circumstances. You will hopefully find support and strength on this site from people who are also grieving. For now just getting through each day somehow is an achievement for you and is all you need to do. Slowly in time to come the pain will ease, but for now just know that there are lots of people here sending you hope and comfort. X
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So sorry to hear about your loss, take each day slowly and keep talking. X
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So sorry for your loss it is something we never expected to happen . Take care of yourself my love and I hope you have lots of support at this difficult time .
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So sorry to hear this. It’s something you never expect when someone is so young. My husband is 43 and terminally ill with cancer. Have you heard of the group “widowed and young?” It may help you x
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