Lost my wife on 11 aug 0435 in morning I was with her. We managed to say good bye to her Friday. Don’t know what I’m going to do miss holding her so much.
Its so awful to contemplate any future isnt it, my wife of 56 years died in the hospice on the 24th August and the idea of not holding and kissing her is beyond belief. I have her ashes near me next to the settee we cuddled up on when watching tv, i would go to sleep when we did this and woke to that all loving moment. We have 3 grown up children and 5 grandchildren from our years together which she adored i feel broken in my now empty house, she was the world to me and still is, i feel lost and empty. Its early days and i hope we who suffer this loss can live with our memories with the love of our partner as they made us into better people by accepting who we were.
I loved her and we separated in 1990ish then we met again in 2015 married in 2017 30 years from our first marriage we where soul mates just feel numb
I lost my lovely wife of 48 years on the 29th. of August. I was with her when she died in hospital. I am completely lost as all of you are in this situation. I cannot contemplate a future without her.
24th august when my wife of 54 years died and i was with her. Our grow up children rally round and have convinced me to get a dog which i collected from a refuge to keep me company.
I feel broken though and the loneliness keeps crashing in on me then the tears come as i remember all those special moments we shsred that can never be repeated.
I read a lot of the advice about loss but the void im feeling for my Maureen is soul destroying.
Keep safe, remember the love you both shared.
I still can’t belive my wife is not with me anymore. Just keep going to talk to and touch her
Im the same, the despair of never seeing or speaking to her again is so shattering. Years of hospital treatments, appointments, ward stays and finally its hospital pnemonia that took her while staying in a specialist ward for secondary bone cancer, dvt and low platelets. She was only just 17 when we got together and was together until she turned 73 and the hospital staff sang happy birthday to her just 3 weeks before she died. All the talk of her condition being treatable by them after having missed the cancer in her bone although they had noted earlier there was something unusual on her hip, it seems they overlooked checking it and she became another statistical casualty.