Hi i lost my husband in 2022 suddenly ,at that time our children were 9 and 10 ,my father was diagnosed with dementia after my husband died so i threw myself in to being his carer so i didnt really grieve for my husband because i was busy with my father and my 2 children who i had to be strong for with losing there dad,i lost my spetembee just gone and both have hit me.like a ton of bricks im grieving for 2 people im looking for work but need term time ,but to be honest im too depressed at the moment so on sicknotes ,im missing my husband even more than ever i get so lonely ,will the pain ever go away any advice please
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Hi Nutty, I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and husband it’s heartbreaking. All we can do is be here to support each other and just take one hour or day at a time. I try not to look far into the future as since I lost my husband 10 months ago the future scares me so I just concentrate on the here and now, take care x