I came across this site on Facebook today. I lost my mum at the end of July, after she fought a very rare form of Myeloma, of which there is currently no treatment for. Her passing was so sudden, we had no chance of saying goodbye. I am finding it really tough dealing with her loss as well as looking after my father, who has Alzheimers. Trying to stay focused and cope day to day is really hard. I miss her so much.