Loss of dad

My dad passed away on the 19th May. I was a dad’s girl. I would speak to him numerous times a day. He would ring me every day at 7am. I would see him most days.

His death wasn’t expected, I flew to Cyprus on the Tuesday for my best friend’s wedding, my brother took him to the drs on the Wednesday as he was struggling with his breathing, they told him to go straight to hospital. He died as I was taking off to come home. He died of mesothelioma which he or us didn’t know he had.
I feel massive guilt for not getting there, even though I know I couldn’t change the outcome, I’m devastated he died alone.

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Sending hugs, it’s so hard, I feel for you x

Thank you xx

I think it’s the love you shared in life that matters most. I lost my Dad recently and I was close to him too. When our loved ones are far away we still know they love us xxxx

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you that’s a good way to look at it