Lost my husband 6 months ago and I’m still at a loss went back to work but find some days just so hard ,then a week ago today lost my dad ,I’m trying to look after my mum as well ,don’t think I’ve had time to process everything ,I’m just plodding on to get things sorted ,my husband and dad were like best friends ,I’m trying not to cry for the loss of both of them ,cause there’s just to much to do ,I’m heartbroken again for the loss of to key figures in my life
Bluegirl, Oh and I thought I was having it tough, so sorry but I do know how you feel, I lost my wife of 52 years a year ago, I also have relations that are going through tough times I have a funeral to go to next month. I think that is the time of life that we have got to, I keep trying to look back at the good times and bring happy memories to the top. They say that love is the cause of grief, So I try to remember the pleasure and enjoyment I got from the love to make it worth paying this price. You are doing so well looking after your mother I really admire you for that with your own partner just passing. Well done you are coping better than I would.
I’m sorry for your loss ,and it’s very hard as you know yourself ,I had been married for 43 years ,and my mum and for 67 years
We’re a very close family ,I miss my husband so much and now with my poor dad ,I just going through the motions at the moment get everything sorted ,I’m trying not to think of anything further then what I have to do each day,I’m struggling myself but trying to keep it all together,hope your taking care of yourself aswell ,sending love to you and yours