Hi, I’m new here. I left my partner after 10 year’s last August to the delight of my mum. I now live on my own. My mum passed August 25th 
I also lost my job in February. Well I got payed off. Feeling lost 
It’s like mum waited for me to leave my parter before she passed I miss her advice
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Hello @D14,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your mum. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You might also want to look at: Losing a parent - coping with the death of a parent | Sue Ryder
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
My Mum died suddenly in her sleep last night at about 1am my Brother rang to tell me I spoke to her that night she said to stop worrying she is on and not going to die but she did. I’m beyond devastated and feel so lost I was trying to get back to Victoria to be with her and didn’t make it in time. I feel so sad, guilty, lost and hurt. There is a massive void that will never fill I would talk to her daily several times a day and now that’s gone to she was only 72 and thought she had a while left. I have the worst headache and broken heart. I’m glad she went painless in her sleep though but there will never be any answers. Now I have to try and organise my first funeral and of my Mother at that. I don’t know where to begin I have cried a river of tears. I was moving back to Victoria to be with her but didn’t make it in time. The devastation is hard to overcome and not hearing her voice. We were very close I spoke to her multiple times a day. The loss feels unbearable.
I think we all miss our mum’s and the words of wisdom she gave me. I do miss that so much, mum always understood. But I was losing her rapidly and those chats came less frequent.