Loss of my children

Coping with bereavement
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You’re children are not suppose to die before a
Parent
I’m mad at my sons and my daughter for leaving me .
I’m frightened about other family members
Leaving me
No one seems to know what I should do
One councillor actually didn’t know what I should
Do because I had lost so many children in such a short time 🥲x

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im so sorry your going through this nightmare, i have also lost my son and daughter i just dont know what to do again im sorry

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I so sorry you have lost your son and daughter. I can’t imagine the pain you are in.
I lost my daughter suddenly when she was nearly 22 from SUDEP That was 16 years ago and the pain is still raw. Now I have lost my husband it just seems harder to carry on

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Hi @tjl2022 @janette1 and @Jeanine1

I’m so sorry to hear about the losses you have suffered. Life certainly has thrown you some tough curve balls. I want to welcome you and offer some information you might find helpful.

Our Online Grief Support page offers bereavement information, free counselling, text support and a Grief Guide service.

I’m glad that you’ve been able to talk about how you’re feeling here. You’ll find many others here who have had to deal with losing a child and it always helps to relate to people in a similar situation. You can also get support from a number of different sources, some of which I’ll link below.

  • Samaritans are available 24/7 to talk about anything that you are worried about in confidence. You can call them on 116 123.
  • Shout are contactable by text, 24/7. You can text SHOUT to 85258 and talk to them about anything.
  • The Compassionate Friends is set up to help parents who have lost a child of any age. 0345 123 2304 https://www.tcf.org.uk/

You deserve care and support so please do look at getting in touch with one of these services and keep posting, we’re always here to help.

Take care,

Mick
Online Community team

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So very sorry for your awful losses. It simply is not fair .I can imagine why the therapist was at a loss as to how to help. I hope that you have the support that you need.This is a massive loss I send my love to you all J

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I’ m so sorry that you have lost both your son and your daughter. I lost my son 13 weeks ago and I’m broken and don’t think I’ll ever mend, I can’t imagine how it must feel to loose two children.
My son was disabled and I had cared for him for 41 years, I’m so lost now.
I don’t want to go out and do things. When I do go out I go through the motions and almost feel that he will be in the house when I get home and then I break down when I get home and nothing has changed. I just want to get through each day feeling that all this is only temporary and soon he’ll be there and everything will be ok. I know he’s never coming back my heart is broken.
I feel so much for you , it must be so difficult.