Hi,
In 2024, i lost my dad to cancer a month after he got diagnosed. It happened very quickly. I am still struggling really bad with it. More than i was when i first lost him. I have started having nightmares of him taking away everyone i care about. That he is angry with me because i couldn’t make him better. The nightmares are that bad i wake up physically sobbing. I don’t know how to cope. I am really struggling
Hi @jessmxo,
Thank you for bravely reaching out. I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. You are not alone. I’m not sure if you’ve seen our Losing a parent category. But there you can connect with other members who are living with grief after losing a parent.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support to you. In the meantime, you might find these Sue Ryder resources helpful to read.
Our Losing a parent page talks through some of the emotions you may be experiencing
Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through
I hope you find the community to be a support to you. Take good care and keep reaching out 