Loss of my daugher

In just 2 years I have lost my husband, my brother and now my wee girl okay she was 56 but she will always be my wee girl and my granddaughter (20) is breaking her heart and I do not know how to help her. I try to try to give her considered advice but my heart is broken I am reeling and have no idea what I am going to do. I do not want to mix with people they annoy me sorry but they do all I want to do is curl up and inwardly die (my faith will never allow me to do anything like hurting myself besides I would not do that to my son or my grandchildren) it is much safer to stay inside with my animals and to hell with the rest of the world. But I know I have to start engaging with people but I really truly do not want to if only to be able to help my granddaughter

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I’m so sorry for the loss of your daughter, @FeeBee. It sounds like you have experienced so much grief and loss in your life, it is completely understandable you are feeling so heartbroken. Thank you for bravely reaching out.

We have a support page on losing a parent which your granddaughter may find helpful. The Losing a parent section on this community is also really active and supportive, too.

We also offer free online bereavement counselling. Sessions are held via video chat. You can find out more on our website.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard.

Take good care,
Seaneen

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Thank you for your care

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