Loss of my daughter

Hi everyone I’m new to this but am struggling lost my daughter age 21 in October it’s so hard doing anything I feel lost I don’t know what am doing .And I can’t believe what has happened to me missing her so so much it hurts .

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Hello @Razwana2003 ,

I’m so sorry to hear about your daughter. It sounds as though things are very hard at the moment and you are feeling lost and in disbelief.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. You might already be familiar with our other Online Bereavement Support services, but if not, you can find out more about our Online Counselling service, our Grief Coach text support service, and our Grief Guide self-help tools by visiting the link.

Another good place to get support is

  • Child Bereavement UK support families with the loss of a child. They also support bereaved children. You can call their helpline on 0800 02 888 40.

  • The Compassionate Friends support families who have lost a child of any age. They have a grief companion scheme where you can get 1-1 support from another bereaved parent. You can call them on 0345 123 2304.

Take care - keep reaching out,

Alex

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Hello Razwana. Sorry you had to find yourself here, and so sorry for your terrible loss. I too lost my daughter in October, October 14th, she was 43. I have never known pain like it, unlike any other close losses I have been through, including my husband. I feel for you, it’s such a difficult rollercoaster of a journey. I hope you have somebody supporting you, other family or friends, they may not ‘get it’ but they can be there when you need to cry or talk about her. I do find this site helpful, only other parents who have lost their child can know what you are going through. Pop in here once in a while to express yourself, I think it helps. God bless x

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Sending love and very deepest sympathies to you for the loss of your daughter. xx

It is very hard losing a child . I loss my son aged 47 to cancer,he loved life so much.The courage he showed and how kind he was to everyone. Every time you see something your daughter would like I you will cry inside or out,that never goes away.
But try to remember the good times,and how proud you were of her.sending you lots of Love.