Lost my husband on 29/12/2024 cant put into words how i feel, lost my mum on 29/01/2025 its a double heartache, i just feel numb
@Elaine024 oh my goodness you must be in total shock losing 2 such special people so close together, I’m so sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you. It’s nearly 8 weeks since I lost my wonderful husband so I’m not sure I have a lot of advice, but simply just take one day at a time and know that you are not alone, reach out on the forum whenever you need to, sending love
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Elaine024
I can level with your pain,i lost my sister on 12/9/24 and my wife on 17/9/24 my sister collapsed by my wife’s bed visiting her in hospital of a brain bleed my wife died with pancreatic cancer that had spread to her liver.
It’s still very raw what’s happened to you .
I found this site and it’s helped me out of the grief fog to a point where i can think and see clearer.
Being on here you get word’s of wisdom from other’s on here who have hurt like yourself.
You like myself have l long road ahead but you will get there one step at a time.
There’s a organisation called Cruse who can give you direction over the phone or one to one.
Take care and remember your not alone.
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@Elaine024
I’m so sorry. Yes it is double shock. I lost my beloved hubby as it was the anniversary of my mum’s death. Yes it hit me hard. I can’t find the words to express to you. I am just coming out of what I call a daze a brain fog. Shock. I make myself get up get washed. Do you have anyone with you? X
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