I lost my husband last week. We had been together since I was 18. I don’t know how I am going to cope with the loneliness and feel total despair. Can anyone offer any advice please?
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Hi there m so so sorry for your loss, I lost my husband 10 weeks ago and the pain is unbearable, I have been very up & down but today is a bad day, do you have any family or friends ?
Yes I have a daughter who has been an amazing support but she has her own family and grief to deal with too and I’m trying to support her as well. Good friends but at the end of the day at home alone which is hardest
hi so sad to hear about your loss it sucks my husband of 48 years died 15 weeks ago and it is so hard i wish i could tell you great things but we just keep going because thats just what we do i try to keep busy which means walking dogs and cleaning but i find it so hard to talk about davy because its so upsetting but we are here for you as we all know how you are feeling
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Hiya Ally I cant offer much then I am sorry you are here. It’s just over 13 weeks when I lost my husband Gra, l do have family for as much good as they are. I have been told this is my new life and I have to learn to live with it.
They havent a clue !!! The lonilness is so horrendous the pain cuts so deep you feel you cant breathe properly
The best advice I was given was 1 hr 1 day and in the beginning i was taking one minute at a time.
I still cry everyday for the man i so deeply loved, and for tge life and happiness that was once mine. Hugs Jo here if you want to message me anytime . Xxx
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