Loss of my mum , so raw

My mum passed away the end of April which wasnt expected. We had her internment 2 weeks ago. Im struggling so much. Every day its like being in ground hog day. I cry , i get angry , im numb , im ok ( i act i am) . I don’t know how i can move on :broken_heart::sleepy:

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Hi, I am so sorry to hear about your mom, its not easy and I completely understand what you are going through, I lost my mom last oct and still suffering to be honest, I act I am okay but I am not, I tried therapy but it didn’t work, If possible post here often because people actually understands, all i can ask is stay in the nature and meet people do you have a family or a spouse? I am 26 and I lost her when I was through a tough phase in life and it became more difficult now my remaining family have given up on me and I am done tbh I speak here about my experience and try to help others

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I’m so sorry for your loss Kaz. The interment must have been such a difficult and strange day for you.

You will never move on as such Kaz… the grief moves with you.

I’m almost 5 months into losing my mum, and all I can say is that things feel strange, confusing, weird, alien…. But, I’m getting to work, I’m getting out of bed at weekends, I’m moving my body, seeing friends again and doing all the things I have to do, to keep ticking along.

If you can manage these things, a little more day by day, the grief monster will get less loud and growly. Slowly… but surely. Just as best you can go take care of yourself. However that looks for you.

Post here often.

You can say the strangest things and soemone will reply and say, “‘me too.”

Xx

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My lovey mum passed away last November and I feel exactly the same xxx
Just trying my best swimming, meeting friends, working, Off for school hols so trying to take my mind off things.
Sending love :heart:

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