Loss of my partner this month 😭

Losing a partner
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I recently lost my partner this month he was only 47. I feel so empty,numb and can’t stop crying. All I want to do is speak to him. I message his phone daily but the pain is unbearable

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Dear Caz, am so sorry for your loss!! what you are going through during the first weeks after losing our soulmate is like torture — yes the pain is unbearable and all you want to be with him. It’s been three months since my wonderful husband died. It still hurts awfully but the pain does get less constant, and eventually you will have moments of calm during the day. Just want to send you a big hug. Please post here and read the advice of many kind people who have gone through this hellish experience before us.

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Hi caz, I am so sorry to hear your pain. My wife died on Christmas day and the pain and crying during the first couple of months was continuous. It really is a matter of survival at the beginning. You have to make sure you look after yourself. I hope you have family and friends to help support you and your daughter though this difficult time. Being able to post here was a godsend for me because everyone understands what you are going though and it allows you to get things off your chest.
Wishing you all the strength you will need.
All the best
Tom

:hugs: :hugs:

:people_hugging::people_hugging:

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Hi @Caz01
I am so sorry for your loss , I lost my husband suddenly 8 months ago . The first months are terrible. The numbness you are experiencing is normal in grief . The pain does ease, I now have days that are quite calm . And other days that aren’t so good. It comes in waves or a roller coaster ride . I hope you have family and friends to support you . Take one day at a time, just focus on one thing at time . This site has been a life line for me . There lots of people who understand what you’re going through. Look after yourself
Sending you hugs :people_hugging: :hugs:

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Dear Caz, so sorry for your loss, I lost my partner suddenly 4 months ago, the first couple of months were a blur to be honest. The pain you’re feeling is normal when you lose your loved one. Just make sure you get some support from family or friends if you can for you and your daughter. This site has been a god send for me as everyone understands how it feels.

Sending you hugs, please take care, LJ :people_hugging: :people_hugging:

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Hello Caz, so sorry for your loss, I lost my husband almost 10 weeks ago. :cry: first couple of weeks are the hardest, you’re in shock, you’re in denial, you’re trying to plan a funeral, its the hardest thing I’ve had to endure in my lifetime. But you will start feeling better, slowly, you will probably have setbacks, but that’s normal, . I also still send messages to my husband’s phone, I send him pictures of our grandkids and I just tell him I love him and miss him, .. this site has helped me a lot to connect with other people going through the same emotions :confused:. please take care of yourself .and may God bless you :folded_hands:

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Morning @Caz01
I am sorry for your loss , it’s 8 months since I lost my husband suddenly. The first few months are horrible. What you are feeling is normal in grief of losing your love one . I hope you have family to support you and your daughter.Take it slowly day by day or even hour by hour. Look after yourself :hugs::people_hugging:

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