Hi Deborah
Christ some people!! Sending love. No one but no one can understand or feel the loss we have to endure.
I find it incredibly difficult to say out loud that I lost a child. Plucked up the courage the other day to tell a new neighbour…I got a bit tearful…she immediately said ”how did he die
I was taken aback but I explained Henry had poor mental health and on top of his prescription drugs he used recreational drugs…she said “oh”
Not sorry…or how awful…nothing but oh! Then told me all about her friend who lost her daughter to cancer. Yes, that’s awful and that poor woman lives without her child.
I still live without Henry….he was so kind and gentle…he’s still my son…my loss isn’t any less. 
Wish to God I’d told her to eff off…
Sorry- had to share.
Big hugs
Purple x