I lost my partner August 2022, he was 54, it was a sudden death, he had a hobby paramotoring in the sky, we didn’t live together but was planning on doing this year, he went flying one evening and fell out of the sky, and died instantly, 
it’s been really tough, I suffer with mental health and grief on top is just so difficult to cope with, we had Been together a year, and he was my soul mate,I’d finally found the one, and now he’s gone, just dont know what to do I try my best to keep going in life, but it’s mighty tough
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Hello @Helen7,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your partner - it sounds like his death was such a shock to you. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Seaneen
I’m sorry to hear you lost your husband, yes it’s awful, I battle on everyday the best I can, but the grief is always there
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Sorry for your loss too, it’s not easy and no one truly knows what if feels like unless it happens to them, yes just got to keep going best you can, and hopefully in time it will be easier to live with.
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