How do you cope , when the day seems to be okay, but then the grief slams you once again.
Life just doesn’t seem worth carrying on with, I don’t know what to do x
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I do know what you mean. Sadly, I think we have to accept that the grief will come back over and over, many times on some days, and we just have to suffer it. I never thought I would think this, but now I have no fear of death. BUT I do have a sister and sister-in-law who need me, as well as two dogs who really need me every day to feed and walk them and love them - they need me, especially since they also lost my lovely Alan, who they loved. I am sure you have friends and relations who need you and who will need you in the future. We just have to hang on. I have been told that it doesnt go away, but it gets easier to bear. I hope so, for everyone on this site. Thinking of you.
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Thank you so much for your help, you are so right, my sister who also lost her husband and is disabled, needs me I also have a friend who says she doesn’t know what she would do with out me, so you really helped me to see that xx
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Jilly44uk
Yes the hurting hits you when you least expect it, don’t try to stop the tears letting it out I’ve found helps.
Mornings and nights i find hard at times
Take care 
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