Hi all,
It’s been just over two years since I lost my Keith to a sudden and devastating blood clot. But, I’ve coped reasonably well and kept myself busy, maybe too much. I’ve just kept going and unfortunately blocked things out when I should’ve just let them go.
I’m now at a point where I feel completely broken and feel that my life is a mess. Particularly because of my health. I feel anxious all the time and it is affecting my stomach. I don’t think there is anything serious wrong with me, just can’t get myself out of this vicious circle. Has anyone else been having these kind of health issues because of grief, or any other health issues that you feel is down to grief.? Thanks in advance. 
x
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Hello @Sandra123 ,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your Keith. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
Hi Sandra. I lost my Phil a year ago this week. I lost a lot of weight initially, partly because I was trying to, but mostly I’m finding lack of sleep is my enemy. Even last night I found myself up at 3am doing admin! I used to sleep a full 8 hours when Phil alive, but now I’m lucky to get 3-4 hours. Despite walking a lot with our dog, I’m starting to gain weight again and I’m wondering why I’m bothering as it’s only me now.
I also am experiencing a lot of somatic problems along with mental pressure. Anxiety is so bad that my gut health is affected. Stomach always in knots, bad dreams when I sleep, and worsening health maybe because I can’t get the care needed anymore. I hope you will get to feeling better.
Anxiety is always with me too. I’m 72 and getting worried about my finances as the government have stopped the fuel allowance and looking to stop council tax discount so any savings I had are beginning to get spent. So much for us working hard all our lives to not be a burden and my husband thought I’d be financially okay for my future. I’m glad he’s not here to see how we pensioners are being treated.
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Yes it feels unfair to treat us like this.
How are we meant to cope?
The Government seem heartless and I feel so unfair and disgusted.
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Hi Sandra 123,
Also feeling anxious and alone, My partner passed away six months ago. I am going out and about but I have no enthusiasm. Feel like I am just filling in time
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