Hi I lost my husband 18 months ago he wasn’t Ill it was a sudden death he was 64, and I feel so lost and alone I keep waiting for him to come in, I am still working but only part time now I have a few faces that I allow people to see but when I’m alone the real me surfaces and I sob cause my heart is breaking, he was my best friend my soul mate he was the best part of me, I am struggling so much I really don’t know how to go on, I have my kids and grandkids but they all have families of their own and I can’t burden them with how I feel it’s not fair on them, please if anyone could give me some true advice, thank you
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Hi Tracey,
So sorry to hear about your husband. Mine died suddenly too, cardiac arrest with no history of heart problems.
I wish I had a magic wand. I think most people here would say that the only way is baby steps, taking an hour at a time. You have done great to get through whilst holding down a job at the same time.
It is good that you have found this site, lots of good people here with sound advice and everyone understands and shares your pain.
Xx
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Thank you .
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So sorry, Tracey.
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So sorry you’re stuggling
You’ve come to the best place
We all understand
X x
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So very sorry…
I agree with @Willow112 , baby steps.
The people on here are so kind and very supportive.
They understand so I hope you will continue to reach out.
Big hugs,
Rose xx
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Thank you all so much for replying to me, I know there is a lot of people that feels the way I do but I just feel so lost and alone, so once again thank you all for being here just knowing I can speak about the way I feel and not being judged x
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We’re all here for you
X x