My daughter unexpectedly passed on the 30th November. We are waiting for results of Post Mortem but suspect that she may of taken her own life!
There was a big family row 5 years ago and we haven’t really spoke since then and I just feel so guilty about the whole situation. She has left 5 children and 3 sisters who are devastated. We are all at a loss at how to deal with it.
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Hello @Canaloki,
I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling. I’m so sorry to hear about your daughter. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support. In the meantime, you may wish to look at these Sue Ryder resources which might be helpful.
- Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
- Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
- Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
- Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through.
You might also want to look at The Compassionate Friends support families who have lost a child of any age. You can call them on 0345 123 2304 - www.tcf.org.uk/.
I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex