Hello,
Just wondering how to cope with my current grief. My life long friend died 4 weeks ago now due to drugs & having a really hard time accepting it all. He was the most amazing person that ended up down a dark path he seen no way out of
We tried to help him but he was too far down the path before it became apparent
He was the best friend anyone could have. Life will never be the same without him xx
I know words can sometimes be never enough, but, im sorry for your loss.
Im only 7 days into this horrible grief process- and all i can say is that its ok to be sad, to be angry, to be numb, to be confusedβ¦all of it, its ok. I guess now, all we can do is remember how much we love those who have gone. And know that they loved us. Your friend loved you. Drugs are an absolute [blank- im swearing!] Its difficult to go down that rabbit hole. But, please take comfort in remembering the love. Take care x
Thank you so much, i appreciate your time & words. Thats a really nice way to try and relate to it all.
Sending love and healing your way
Grief is horrendous and so difficult, iβm going through it properly for the first time and i feel like it comes and goes, and comes back again. I hope you start to feel abit brighter, and i hope you do not blame yourself at all. Life is cruel, especially when you loose someone so close to a situation like drugs which you probably think could have been avoidable. Addiction is very tough,no matter what you would have done it most likely would have been the same outcome, please do not blame yourself. I hope you see that and i hope you can grief at ease and not blame yourself.