My son, Sam, died on Saturday suddenly after a complex blood disorder. My whole world has turned upside down. Sam was my everything, my inspiration. He was always positive, kind, happy …Everyone has said what a wonderful young man he was (22)… I am completely and utterly devastated. I have a wife and 18 year old daughter.
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Hi @Oreothecat
Thank you so much for sharing this lovely photo of your son, Sam - I’m so sorry to hear that he died on Saturday.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone 
Take good care,
Naoise
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Oreothecat,
What a Beautiful picture of your son Sam and I am truly deeply sorry for the loss of such a lovely young man.
Words can’t describe the pain at the moment and the complete and utter shock of losing your beloved boy.
I lost my son in November and I am still in the early stages of grief.
Please know that you are not alone and people on this site will understand exactly how you feel at this moment and can help with kind words and advice to help you through this absolutely traumatic period.
My heart goes out to you and your family xx
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Hi,
What a lovely pic of Sam, such a lovely smile, I’m so sorry 
for his passing, I know exactly how you feel 
, I live by the coast light pollution is virtually nil, I can see shooting stars 
some clear evenings, I’m sure our children are up there looking down, it gives me great comfort xx
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What a lovely smiley pic. I,m so sorry to hear you,ve lost your beloved Son. I lost my 35 year old Son 5 weeks ago (and his Dad, my husband of 38 years 6 months ago), I have no other children or family now. The heartbreak of loosing a child is a pain like no other, 5 weeks on and I still cry everyday and I feel physically sick with emptiness and loneliness, we were v close and spoke every day throughout the day, I literally feel like my heart has been ripped from me. Everyone says in time it will get easier, tho the loss and pain will never go but that you will learn to live with it, it won’t feel as raw and you,ll be happy again. Memories that bring tears now will bring smiles in the future. I think all we can do is take one day at a time, there,s no time limit on grief and one day the world will seem a little brighter again. My thghts are with you and your family.
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Thank you so much… my love being sent to you too.. We all need to feel the love and support.
We sure do, its love and support that will help us get through the darkest times. X
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I’m sorry for ur loss of ur son The pain is horrendous.. Measured by ur love.. Sending a hug
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