Lost my lovely wife to cancer, such a lonely time let’s hope the pain will ease.
Hi everyone I lost my husband to cancer nearly 3 years ago
I do feel stronger this Xmas without him and I feel lucky ( if that’s the right word? ) to have friends and family but every time I am alone I feel this dread and emptiness and scared feeling for the future is this normal
Hi Jon
I’m so sorry to hear about your wife
I am a great believer that they are with us all the time even though we can’t see them?
Yes the pain does ease a little we just learn how to live with our loss
Remember you are not on your own
Thank you Amanda, you are right, but it really is so hard
It is very hard indeed
Just try and get through each hour at a time not one day and keep as busy as you can
This helps me a lot
That’s exactly how I feel it’s that scary feeling of what’s going to happen in the future and so much emptiness.