Lost my mum, and life just keeps getting worse

my mum passed end of July and it’s my birthday in a couple of days, luckily I have the last birthday card she wrote to me so I will get that out.
I feel there is a part of me missing, we were so close.
But if losing mum wasn’t enough, the week after my grandchildren and daughter in law were in a horrendous crash on the motorway, I am so grateful that they are still here, although recovering.
Then to top it all we were told this week my husband has cancer.
I broke my heart that night and fell asleep downstairs holding mums ashes, i so needed her.
I keep trying to be strong for everyone but it’s so hard when all I want to do is cry.


Aww Queenbeez
Just read your post.Aw how awful.My heart goes out to you How much more can a person take?
I don’t even know where to start in helping you except to say thank God your daughter and grandchildren are ok even though they are recovering.
What is next for your husband?
I am recovering myself from cancer so know a little about the emotional road that takes everyone down. My mum passed away last Dec so I am still grieving for her and like you have hugged her ashes tightly praying she can somehow fix things that are out of my control.
I just want you to know I am thinking of you .This site us amazing so keep posting People really do understand x
Deborah x


I’m so sorry @Queenbeez. Sending you love xxx

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