Lost my mum

Hello am having a bad day I lost my mum 4 months ago I feel so lost sum days


Hello @Daisy1973 ,

I’m part of the Online Community team and I can see that you are new to the community - I’d like to thank you for bravely starting this thread and sharing how you are feeling lost and having a really bad day. I’m so sorry to hear about your Mum. Most community members have sadly experienced the death of a loved one and so will understand some of what you are going through.

I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that might be helpful.

I really hope you find the community helpful and a good source of support and I also hope you feel you can access more support should you need it.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,


I also lost my mum, 4 weeks ago tomorrow. It would of been her birthday 2nd Jan😥 she would of been 79. Each day has been hard but especially christmas as she only passed just before what is suposed to be such a happy time and tomorrow, that will be hard too. I cant tell you it gets easier like others say because i dont think it does, i think you just adjust to living with the loss, the longing to see them, talk to them, just knowing that there a drive away, those thoughts dont go they pop into your head all the time. We shouldnt feel guilty for missing them shouldnt feel hurrid along to get back to normal, whats normal now is missing them every minute of every day and that womt every change now.
Sending you big hugs