Lost my mum

Hi everyone,my mum.passed 3 weeks ago and we had the funeral friday.i have bin so busy sroying the funeral that i did cry but woke up stayrday the pain is unbearable.i have 4 year old twins to keep me busy but i cannot think of anything ekse but mum.i was close ans spike to her 2 3 times a day.any suggestions to take my mind of it?

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Hi, I lost my mum 26/3. I have two younger children at juniors and a teenager. Things are really tough right now. Lost my dad 3 years ago. If I can help please message me, thinking of you at this hard time x

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I too lost my mum at the end of December. It hurts, so much. I spoke to my mum daily and saw her at least twice a week so I understand having that void of not talking to her. I still speak to her sometimes, as if she was there. Might sound silly but I miss sharing things with her and if I say it out loud sometimes it’s as it’s if she can hear me. In terms of keeping busy, perhaps you could create a photo book of memories of your mum, I found this quite a good way to look back at the good times. It made me cry, laugh and smile all at the same time, but I think it helped me process things. I also now have a beautiful book I can look at and think of my mum, and it is there for my children too (9 and 12). If you are wanting to try and not think about your loss, sorting and organising things in your home helped me on and off, but it’s always there, often when you least expect it. I hope you have good people around you that you can talk you. Take care and be kind to yourself.

Hi sorry for the loss, there is no words that will help but know your not alone.