Lost my wife

I lost my wife two unexpected to lung cancer in hospital for a week being told lung and getting all messages from doctors telling me it infection and treating her she was only 49 and i had to get the life support turned off and it turn out be a very aggressive lung cancer married for 24 yrs I am really to come terms with it x

Hi Deshar im very sorry for your loss .My advice is this take it day by day ,dont plan things or think ahead,your nightmare is unique to you .Try take some me time your mind heart and soul need a break ,because unfortunately your nightmare will patiently wait for you to return to .Your loved 1 being on a life support machine i undestand .My darling Denise was on 1 for 10 weeks in 2008 ,she passed 04032016 on her 41 st birthday .Keep coming back here no one judges ,there isnt a right or wrong way to go through this ,maybe try the Samaritians (i phone them on a regular basis .Colin (im 59)