Hi, l lost my husband almost 4 years ago. And still feel the same after all this time. Thing is , l never dream about him. Im l the only one,and can anyone tell me why.?
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@Flynn you may dream about him as we don’t remember all our dreams . I have had only a few with him . He is with you I believe . It’s 18 months this month and I don’t feel any better . I can imagine at four years I won’t either . The only thing I have to think is he would want me to be happy . I try and do things to keep me busy
It’s only 3 months but I don’t dream of my husband either. I sometimes think hard about him before going to sleep praying I will see him in my dreams but no. I dream of random people I haven’t seen for years. All I can think about is the Celina Dion song where she says she dreams of him every night. I hate that song now.
Who knows , its been a year since i lost my fiance and I havent dreamed or had any kind of sign from him. I think sometimes grief takes
Over and we cant see what is in front of our eyes because we are so disconnected from
Ourselves. Have you tried meditating ? There
Is a free app called insight timer and you can listen to free guided meditations to help with grief , anxiety , PTSD … the list is endless . It helps me to relax a bit and I tend to sleep better . Maybe the
More we relax the more open we become. It might be worth you giving it a go … who knows … it could work for you 
I am
So sorry you are going through this, its just horrible and I dont know about you but i feel like a totally Different person because of it.