My partner feels i might be still grieving, i am not sure but agree councelling or talking to others can not be a bad thing. Any advice?
This is a good place to connect with others who can relate and everyone is compassionate. I’m sorry for your losses. 
What makes your partner feel like you’re grieving if you’re not sure yourself?
I think she is still grieving and feels i should too. We are very different and i feel that whilst i miss my parents i think about them all the time and have happy memories. Unfortunately she lost her father 2 years ago and her mother has dementia- her relationship with them is not as good as we both had with my parents…