Lost the love of my life

Losing a partner
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I lost the love of my life less than 4 days ago , it was so sudden and he just went , he was only 39 and I’m so angry with the world , how the universe think it’s ok for my children to lose there dad !!! I look at my son everyday and think I hope his life isit messed up just because this has happened when he I so young , I don’t understand it , so how can he !

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Hammy, I am so sorry your young partner died and left you and your little boy behind. It is heartbreaking. Your anger is normal. It is okay. Whatever you are feeling is okay. Of course you are mad, who wouldn’t be?

You must also be in a numb fog and panicked. We get it. It is traumatic. Top of the list of the hardest things in life - losing a spouse/partner. I am sorry, but I don’t know how to help children understand things that we can’t wrap our heads around. .

It is just so heart wrenching that your son lost his father. I can not imagine how hurt you are for him.

You’ve lost your love and the future you envisioned for yourselves. We get that too. Grieving 2 losses. Then, of course, you grieve for your little boy and his pain.

Hour by hour is all we can do.

Much love.

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I am so very sorry for your loss. Winston’s Wish can give help and support to children who have suffered the loss of a parent. It is very early days for you, I have used this service to help foster children in my care. I hope it can help your son. Sending love and hugs

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Hello @Hammy1,

I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your partner that brings you here.

I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.

Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.

Take care,

Abi