Thinking of you, so sorry for your loss. I took lost my mum but just over a year ago. Some days are easier than othersā¦I get comfort knowing that I am part of her and she will always be with me. We are here to listen if you need to talk. Mums are so special, they are our biggest supporters in life. Itās hard when they are gone. But she will always be with you xx
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I hope that you are okay. We are here to listen if you need to talk. Itās not long after my mumās first anniversary. Iāll always miss her but like you I am trying to remember the good times, as we took didnāt have much time before we lost her. They will always be with us, always in our hearts, never forgotten 
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Iām based in Staffordshire. I miss my nan so much. I didnāt see how much she had changed with illness until she passed. Just struggling with how cruel it all is.Itās gonna be hard this mothers day as she was my everything and id usually take her for a meal and celebrate her being the best person in the world.
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Hi I am new on here , I lost my mum on 16/01/2026 and I am totally devastated, she was in hospital for 5weeks before she passed & she suffered right to the end , it was terrible to watch & I feel so guilty after being there all day & most of the night she passed away after we left , I miss her so much & I struggle everyday , I am back at work & try to be there for my dad but thatās about as much as I do , I have no motivation to anything else
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So sorry for your loss. Itās so unbelievably hard. I was with my mum in the hospice too for around 6 weeks and I still have trauma based around that. Itās the most heartbreaking thing to see someone you love so much dying and fading away before your eyes. You feel so hopeless 
Just know that you did your best and she will be forever grateful. A vicar told me and the ladies in the hospice that that happens often where people are there all the time and the person passes away as they leave. Xxxx
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Itās so hard and we can all hell each other by chatting.
My days are so up and down at the moment and I donāt even know what to say on here sometimes , my heart hurts but my mum is at peace
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Yeah itās good to talk to people who understand. My boss has just told me I seem a bit betterā¦ Iāve spent most of the week crying, my eyes are sore and dry and I have no energy or motivation to do anythingā¦ Maybe Iām hiding it better than I think at workā¦ but Wednesday I cried in work so not that well. I just feel like everyone wants/expects me to be normal whereas I donāt know how I ever can be again. Iāve just started grief counselling and thatās the latest thing that everyone just thinks will fix it. I just really want my mum 
I totally get and understand what you are saying ,there are no quick fixes or cures xxxx
I lost my mum on the 8th December 2025. I think I have spent the first three months in a sort of numb shock. Itās now that I feel a deep sadness. I lost my Dad nearly 10 years ago. Having no parents is very hard. I use to phone my mum regularly to chat.
I buried my uncle in July and my mum died in October. I have felt numb and surreal. Iāve started counselling and now have moments when I cry as reality hits. My mum died suddenly on the day she was coming out of hospital. I was always with her at the hospital. On this occasion I was told that she was coming home, so I was at home getting things ready. I believe that my mum knew that it would be too painful for me to be there, so she chose to save me that pain. There are so many similarities when I read what people have written.